Can I ask for a sign or an answer to a question that only my departed loved one can answer?
Answer: It doesn't usually work that way. Because we are communicating from two different planes...I from a physical plane and the spirit from the spiritual plane, we cannot communicate as clearly and as easily as we would if we were both on the same plane. A spirit sends me pictures, words, and/or sentences, as well as the feelings they are experiencing. They will send through information that they feel is important, and not necessarily what we want to hear.

Why can't you hear all spirits equally well?
Answer: It's somewhat like communicating with a cellular telephone. If you have a cell phone, you know that sometimes you can hear and be heard quite clearly. However, you may move only a few feet and the signal changes. Some spirits emit a strong signal and others may emit a weaker one. This may vary from time to time and from spirit to spirit.

Will I be able to see or hear my loved one?
Answer: Yes and No! Our loved ones desperately try to communicate with us in order to let us know they are okay. Some people may actually see their loved one. And someone else may never see but rather sense them Either way, you are connecting with your loved one in one way or another. Being open minded is the key here. Acknowledging your loved one's presence helps them to come in stronger. But denying they are there only cuts off possible communication of any type.

Can I choose who will come through to bring me a message?
Answer: You can invite, but you cannot choose who will be there. They have their own free will, just as we have ours. And again, some come through much stronger than others.

Is it possible to have my friend (husband, wife, daughter, son, etc.) present while I have my reading?
Answer: Yes you may. However, I do not recommend this unless everyone is completely comfortable with hearing one another's personal issues. There is no telling what information will come through. As the Medium, it is my job to be completely truthful, no matter what that truth may be.

How can you understand what an animal is trying to communicate and how can they understand you?
Answer: Animals have their own "thoughts" that they communicate. Thoughts are a universal language that is not subject to the same rules as verbal language.

Can I learn to communicate with my pet?
Answer: Yes. You can learn to "listen" to your pet, and to communicate your feelings. It takes a bit of work to achieve this, but the results are well worth the effort.